One of the most memorable ideas I encountered while reading
Rod Dreher’s “The Benedict Option” comes from sociologist Philip Rieff:
The death of a culture begins when its normative institutions fail to communicate ideals in ways that remain inwardly compelling…
I immediately recognized the concept as something I have
been struggling to articulate for some time regarding most K-12 education. With the rise of self-destructive behavior
and suicide rates among youth, the usual response is for some individual or
group to create a new educational program promoting better outcomes. There seems to be an endless supply of new anti-bullying
or anti-substance abuse campaigns, and the debate rages about the best ways to
reduce teen pregnancy and sexually transmitted disease. (Teach
“abstinence” or “everything you never imagined” about sex?)
But in most of these programs, I see little that is “inwardly
compelling,” and often much that is contradictory to what is taught elsewhere
in the same school. If a child is taught
that humans are merely carbon-based life forms that accidentally came into
being, what is the compelling reason to “be nice” to the other accidental
beings? If a student is taught that
humans are merely animals and that sexual acts are just bodily functions, what
does it matter if another human is a forced participant?
Although a number of philosophers and thinkers have attempted
to create viable “ethical” systems for materialists, (e.g. Camus,) for most
people such systems fail to provide any “inwardly compelling” motivations. That is not to say that moral systems based
on transcendent realities yield perfect results (and adherents do not expect
them to do so,) but the spiritual aspect seems to create more inwardly
compelling reasons than “be nice because the teacher said so.”
As such, most of the efforts I’ve seen to end bullying, or
reduce consequences of promiscuity, or even just promote civil discourse, are
merely band aids on flesh wounds; the wounds themselves are much deeper. And much more deadly.